The Phoenix Frequencies

Episode 22 Out-sourcing or in-searching

Nienke van Bezooijen Season 3 Episode 22

Striving to learn more, know more, reach a high level of... just name it: for the sake of reaching is never long-lasting fulfilment. A quick high and another diploma or certificate on your wall or on your desk. It is searching outside to feel good, be applauded or be respected through your new level of knowledge. 

Nothing is wrong with learning new things, but is it worth taking a look at your motivation before you fall into the business of training and education, creating a feeling you are lacking something, and more courses will bridge the gap between your current life and your future desire. 

Starting with the integration of what you already have, before taking a new, satisfying course to soothe your feelings of not being enough yet until you.....

Stop outsourcing your fulfilment, start in-searching for what you really want to add to your life. Like Nienke's client of nearly 84. Her wings already existed, but now she learned to fly, freely with effortless effort! 


We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn't about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others. Perfect doesn't exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives.

Courage to move on from the past,
Trust to be with the present,
Rise to create a new future.

If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com

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