The Phoenix Frequencies
Phoenix rises: It isn't the ash that IS your life; it is the rising from the ash that makes life fertile.
In this podcast, I share how I relearned to live based on the present.
Frequently I give short episodes with food for thought.
Or I interview another phoenix who faced obstacles and moved beyond them. The real thing: because we get more from what and how we learn, than the pretended positivity.
As a HeartBraincoach and HeartAmbassador, I love to explore with curiosity the unexpected perspectives in redesigning your life as a phoenix.
If you want to know more about me: www.nienkevanbezooijen.com
Courage to move on from the past,
Trust to be with the present,
Rise to create a new future
I love questions from my audience that I can use as a topic.
heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com
The Phoenix Frequencies
Episode 15 From Ghosting to hosting
From Ghosting to Hosting, a powerful conversation is just a change of one letter.
Ghosting is used as a skill to control a situation through social (non)interaction, aiming to dominate or overpower it. However, people who think they need ghosting as a solution simply haven't yet discovered the social and emotional intelligence toolbox.
Ghosting is in the same field as naming, framing, blaming or shaming: creating social pain to feel like a winner.
What do you do when the heat is on in a business relationship or even a friendship? Ghosting or hosting a conversation that doesn't leave scars afterwards. Instead, hosting a closing conversation that leaves both sides valued, seen and heard without hurting on purpose.
We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn't about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others. Perfect doesn't exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives.
Courage to move on from the past,
Trust to be with the present,
Rise to create a new future.
If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com
